I'm an Oregon native who settled in the Boston area to raise a family with my DH. Since I'm a SAHM, I have the flexibility to take my two sons (ages 3.5 and 7) "home" to the Pacific NW for a month or two every summer. Like many people, I'm absolutely fed up with the current state of air travel, so I'm thinking of outfitting myself with a vehicle (or vehicle+trailer) to make this annual trek by road.
I prefer the economy and flexibility of being self-contained as we drive (over hotels for overnight) since pre-booking hotel rooms is limiting when driving conditions change constantly, but having no reservation is too much to chance with cranky kids. I also love to imagine having our own portable guest room to stay near friends who don't have room for us in their homes. (We're often beholden to my parents' schedule since we usually stay with them.)
I believe we would also use a camper for family trips around New England, but DH and I have done significantly less camping since the boys were born. They're getting big enough now that we've been talking about it a lot, though!
I started by looking at Class B motorhomes. Hmm... Van size is good, but why are they all full of carpeting and cabinetry? Give me something I can at least sweep--if not hose!--clean. I'm still considering buying a full size passenger van and adding a platform bed/bunks that can be used with some of the seats removed. Most conversions are out as I don't trust aftermarket seats enough with my kids' precious lives, and I don't really want to buy a brand new van and spend tens of thousands more on customization. (I'm not a "car person.") It is really tough (and still $$$) to find a used Sprinter van, and that's the only full size van on the market with headrests and 3-point seatbelts as required to keep a kid in a booster seat safe in the vehicle.
So I find myself back to teardrop trailers--and the 560 with its bunk beds for the boys, in particular--which I was looking at a year or so ago. I drive a compact car now, but I am considering biting the bullet and sizing up to a minivan to serve our carpool needs. That would let me tow a small trailer, I believe.
I don't want to pull some behemoth box though I covet the on-board bathroom facilities, and I worry that a pop-up will be too hard to manage alone and/or at the end of a long day with those same little grumps ready to run around after being buckled up for 6-8 hours.
I would love to hear from people who travel with kids in a 560. Does everyone sleep well? Long trips would likely be myself and the boys. DH doesn't take that much time off, so he flies out to join us for a week or two and hurries back to work.
I would aim to stay at official campgrounds along the way (I do love hot running water!), but the self-containment of a trailer would leave me comfortable boondocking for a night if necessary, plus give us (okay--DH) a measure of security knowing we'd be well-equipped to wait it out if a breakdown occurred somewhere remote.
THOUGHTS ABOUT THE TRIP ITSELF:
We've done the trip via Amtrak once, and are heading westbound by train again this year, but this is very expensive when one demands a sleeping compartment for sanity. (I do--to keep the kids corralled and also because I want access to the shower facilities.)
I did the cross-country trip three times as a college student: once on I-90 (August); once through the mid-section (April) on I-80; and finally (December) down I-5 and across on I-40 since I had an internship in DC and it was winter up north. I add this to the discussion just to say that I have some history, albeit 15+ years ago, with driving such a long distance. Obviously, children will be very different travel companions than my dad or a buddy who shares the driving.
Thanks so much for tolerating this very long self-introduction, and thank you for whatever insight anyone has to offer.
--willo
I prefer the economy and flexibility of being self-contained as we drive (over hotels for overnight) since pre-booking hotel rooms is limiting when driving conditions change constantly, but having no reservation is too much to chance with cranky kids. I also love to imagine having our own portable guest room to stay near friends who don't have room for us in their homes. (We're often beholden to my parents' schedule since we usually stay with them.)
I believe we would also use a camper for family trips around New England, but DH and I have done significantly less camping since the boys were born. They're getting big enough now that we've been talking about it a lot, though!
I started by looking at Class B motorhomes. Hmm... Van size is good, but why are they all full of carpeting and cabinetry? Give me something I can at least sweep--if not hose!--clean. I'm still considering buying a full size passenger van and adding a platform bed/bunks that can be used with some of the seats removed. Most conversions are out as I don't trust aftermarket seats enough with my kids' precious lives, and I don't really want to buy a brand new van and spend tens of thousands more on customization. (I'm not a "car person.") It is really tough (and still $$$) to find a used Sprinter van, and that's the only full size van on the market with headrests and 3-point seatbelts as required to keep a kid in a booster seat safe in the vehicle.
So I find myself back to teardrop trailers--and the 560 with its bunk beds for the boys, in particular--which I was looking at a year or so ago. I drive a compact car now, but I am considering biting the bullet and sizing up to a minivan to serve our carpool needs. That would let me tow a small trailer, I believe.
I don't want to pull some behemoth box though I covet the on-board bathroom facilities, and I worry that a pop-up will be too hard to manage alone and/or at the end of a long day with those same little grumps ready to run around after being buckled up for 6-8 hours.
I would love to hear from people who travel with kids in a 560. Does everyone sleep well? Long trips would likely be myself and the boys. DH doesn't take that much time off, so he flies out to join us for a week or two and hurries back to work.
I would aim to stay at official campgrounds along the way (I do love hot running water!), but the self-containment of a trailer would leave me comfortable boondocking for a night if necessary, plus give us (okay--DH) a measure of security knowing we'd be well-equipped to wait it out if a breakdown occurred somewhere remote.
THOUGHTS ABOUT THE TRIP ITSELF:
We've done the trip via Amtrak once, and are heading westbound by train again this year, but this is very expensive when one demands a sleeping compartment for sanity. (I do--to keep the kids corralled and also because I want access to the shower facilities.)
I did the cross-country trip three times as a college student: once on I-90 (August); once through the mid-section (April) on I-80; and finally (December) down I-5 and across on I-40 since I had an internship in DC and it was winter up north. I add this to the discussion just to say that I have some history, albeit 15+ years ago, with driving such a long distance. Obviously, children will be very different travel companions than my dad or a buddy who shares the driving.
Thanks so much for tolerating this very long self-introduction, and thank you for whatever insight anyone has to offer.
--willo